Thank you for reading!
Hello, I'm Valentina, the creator of this website.
This was one of the hardest things I've ever done in my life. But I'm glad I managed to do it.
A little about me? I am 20 years old, born in Spain, but throughout most of what I retold in the website, living in the Netherlands.
I am a trans woman, I came out to my family when I was 16, and started HRT when I was 17, as well as came out publicly that same year.
I am currently in intensive therapy, trying to recover from the assault. It's hard work, but it's been going well.
Throughout the text I wrote, you may have made a mental image of me already or, at least, of how this past year has been like for me.
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I've written this website to make sure that no one else has to experience what I went through. And to try and give light to this truth that my rapist has tried to keep quiet.
"Doing the right thing is never the wrong thing." That's a quote
I really like. Because I believe it's true.
To every single sister
out there in a similar situation to mine, just know we love you, you're
not alone. I and so many others are eager to listen and to help you,
we're witnesses to your voice and to your story.
Rozalia's choice to rape me, when I was at my weakest, has taken so much
from me. Peace, happiness, desire, normalcy, everything, it was all
taken away from me.
Thank you for listening to the truth, and thank
you for all your support.
And a special thanks to those who have cared for me most throughout this
journey: Angeliek, Omar, Sandra, Elena, Roei, and Lee.
Without you, I wouldn't have been able to do any of this.